The fact that we can see successful people reaping the rewards of their efforts to become better by taking positive actions, including changing their own behaviour and attitudes, is the ultimate proof of the effect of the natural law most commonly called "mind set".
By taking your self-volition beyond the life ordinary, forces beyond your control become involved that will benefit you in some way, either immediately or somewhere further down the road.
Every choice, big or small, is a risk-reward calculation, where the bottom-line thinking is "what's in it for me"? It need not simply be a matter of money, it may be a sense of freedom, independence, fulfilment, community development, whatever your objective may be.
That is the force at work when people swallow their pride and just get on with their job no matter how they may dislike it. However you will not see successful people standing still. They feel things just like you and me but they don't allow themselves to get stuck feeling like a victim of fate. They see success as available for themselves, not just as potential "luck" or random chance. They carry this belief even when luck does happen.
Sometimes we may come across a good opportunity for success, yet we let it pass us by because of the indecision resulting from previous experience of failure, preventing us from grabbing it with both hands.
Your beliefs and ideas got you so far and that's a good thing, but beliefs can also make it tough for anyone to further change their way of thinking. So the beliefs that carried each one of us this far may be holding us back in our quest to go further. It's an effect called the "paradox of success".
These beliefs can prevent us from changing safe, "proven" ways and if you don't change them you may avoid losing, but you miss good things that may result in you achieving your dream of greater success in life.
There are four key beliefs that help us to become successful.
Belief # 1 - I am a success. Keep reminding yourself every minute that you are a successful person, At first you will not believe it applies to you. But look at yourself every day, how you get up in the morning and go to work. Think of the successes you have achieved. They may not be huge but you deserve self respect and a good feeling about yourself. Everyone messes up in life now and then, but don't dwell on these things. We must learn from our mistakes, that's vital, but don't let them drag you down. What you need to do is to just extend your ambitions then extend your actions and your successes will increase!
Belief # 2 - I will succeed more. You need to believe that you can do it and you will succeed in whatever you do. Most of us lose the natural "can-do" attitude that we had as a child. Yes it may have occasionally got us into terrible scrapes but wasn't it great! In the adult environment, where life's demands and work demands push and confine us, there is no system to steer our determination towards the things we want to achieve. Revive this child's can-do feeling, the feeling that you will overcome all obstacles and as you come to know that you are the master of your life, you can set your goals, follow through and make it happen with no excuses.
Belief # 3 - I choose to succeed. The most successful people do the successful things because they choose to do them. They have a high need for self determination and that's what they use to succeed. The more successful a person is, the more likely that is to be true.
When we do what we choose to do we are committed, when we do what we have to do we are merely compliant. Successful people have a great distaste for the feeling of being controlled or manipulated.
In psychology this is called cognitive dissonance. It refers to the disconnect between what we believe in our minds and what we experience or see in reality.
Belief # 4 - My successes will continue. Successful people have the mental attitude to think only of being successful. They are driven by the feeling that they must succeed in whatever they do. All day long they have the focus and drive to see things through, they are infused with this idea through their veins and their brains so it becomes their mantra for success. It's what successful people are telling themselves all the time.
You now have the four beliefs to guide you from life ordinary to a much more fulfilling one.
Finally, we can all rely on the highest power, the supreme being, just like most gurus and modern day sages write. All this will not get us results if we don't try to follow them.
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Compiled by: Kay Eve
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